Stop "Victim Blaming" culture!

The idea of blaming sexual abuse or harassment on the way women dressing is one of the most disgusted  thing I've heard personally.

What a stereotypical and dangerous excuse!
And what make me even sadder is because the one who said that kind of thing is my girlfriend. A woman! How sad!

We discuss about a sexual harassment in the news and she said, well maybe the woman wear something provocative. Well I'm very surprised. She is quite well educated and in her 20's. On what ground she thinks like that.

And you know, maybe, most of the women in Indonesia still thinking that way. Every time a man harass them, for example verbally, they will question they way they dressing and then blame themselves for that "pig" action (let's call a man who do sexual harassment as a pig, because basically they are pigs).

Women should be able to wear anything they like. And if men do sexual harassment to women,  basically it because those men's brain is dirty just like shit. No any other excuse. Period.

And as women, we never blame other women (as victim) in any cases of sexual abuse or harassment. We should support each other and teach our children, boys and girls, to respect each other.
Boys to respect women, to never treat them as sexual objects and have some self control.
And girls, to respect men as well as human being,

Victim blaming is as worst as the crime itself